To
me, I can never really justify why it’s okay to take time out to relax. I'm a
freelancer, which means I make my own hours (to an extent), and I get to shape
my weeks according to how I want to. This to me means that I don't really have
an option to complain about my job, about the commute etc; and I'm slowly
learning that this shouldn't be the case. The term 'relaxing' doesn't necessarily
mean going for a massage and getting a facial, but can simply mean taking some
time out to do nothing and re-group. Regrouping can be super productive and
successful in the long run as it allows us to step away from our crazy lives
(if only for a second) and just assess everything, prioritise what needs doing
and what's important. It allows us to stop from running ourselves into the
ground and helps us to get a little break from the routine.
There
will always be things to do and if you are like me, if the to-do list is slowly
going down you somehow start to create jobs just for jobs sake. But it's very
important to take time out for yourself as it can help to keep you sane (and
help others around you not get their heads bitten off!)
If
you find it hard to relax that's fine, there are tools and tricks to help. If
it's not easy to you to do, then don't force yourself into take a whole day to
relax. You will most likely think of this as a 'wasted day' and want to get
back to that to-do list. Instead, just take an hour or a few hours out from
that day. Maybe finish early or get up an extra hour before work and use your
time then to relax. Meditation before work can be great and can be useful to
plan for the day ahead. A lot of apps can help with this and if that's not your
thing, then just reading with a facemask or taking a bath can be just the
thing.
Before
relaxing if you are feeling especially stressed, try to work out the route of
the problem. If it's your workload, then write everything down that's going on
in your head, prioritise it and then go relax for a little while knowing that
when you come back it's all ready and set out for you to power through. If it's
something that can't be helped (like an upcoming anxiety-filled event) then
maybe have a chat with a loved one over your concerns and try to change these
thoughts into positive ones. Also, if it's not happening for 3 days, then why
think about it now? Future you can sort that (and don't worry, you'll get
through it and it will be fine).
Try
not to think of taking time out for you as wasted time. You wouldn't be able to
go to work everyday without sleeping so it's just the same thing. You won't be
able to tackle the issues going on with your life unless you body and mind has
had the rest it needs. Regrouping your thoughts can make problems shrink and
can even make you come up with solutions. Always being on the go can shadow the
great things going on in your life and relaxing can help you to appreciate
these things.
Get
into a routine where you take time to relax. You may have a half day a week
where you don't
make any plans, or two days a week where you wake up that extra
hour for a session of yoga and taking yourself to breakfast. Never feel guilty
of these things, because you wouldn't be you and be able to function at the
best you can without taking time out to check in with yourself, re-evaluate
things and just clear your mind. Go be a little bit selfish sometimes and
relax! This year one of my aims is to take time out for myself, to allow myself
to relax a little more enabling me to get the best out of my days. I’ve started
choosing to get my nails done instead of cleaning my flat or just taking a full
hour lunch break to sit in a café and people watch and if this is
something you also struggle with, try to take the time to do this, relax more
and allow yourself this time without feeling guilty.
What
are your best tips to relax and unwind and do you try to take time out just for
yourself?
GM xo
Jacket: Forever 21
Jeans: Topshop
Boots: Dune
GM xo
Jacket: Forever 21
Jeans: Topshop
Boots: Dune
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